I think too far would be to the extent that somebody dies. I can't really comment on anything else since I'm a non-yandere. I haven't really dated if you can say at all. So, don't have much to comment on this.
The hardest thing I do to ensure a target is keeping them as a friend and trying to suppress my interest if it seems like they won't accept me without a lot of warming up. Of course, doing this makes it a lot harder to stay interested if they reject me without even the prospect of love coming up, so I guess it is just the healthiest behavior for me.
And I think the most extreme thing I would do is find someone's address and send them letters and gifts. Anything involving violence or illegal actions (unless it is just cyberstalking) is too much for me to try unless I really lost my mind or hope in humanity.
Somehow I might just be immortal. Perhaps it isn't so hard after all.
Well, I'd talk to their friends and ask them about my target. I'd change my hobbies according to theirs, and see to it we have things in common. I'd do just as much cyber stalking as possible. If they're truly worth it to me, I may resort to more desperate measures.
Going from experience: When I think of my lover - I would do anything to keep us together. But if we broke up because he wasn't happy...I would try with all my heart and soul for us to work. But if that doesn't work - I would not do anything and leave him be. I would want to remain best friends with him but realistically I wouldn't be able to cope with it. When you love someone so much you want them to be as happy and healthy as they can be. Even if that doesn't include you in their life plan and us breaking up killed me, I'd put him first. Other than that, I've come to terms with knowing I'd throw health and happiness away so long as we're together.
How far...I've really considered just taking my mom's car secretly in the middle of the night to get to her (three hours away) but I guess it'd be too much. I still consider it at times because I get concerned shes hurting and needs someone. I get overwhelmed with stress sometimes and I just need to be there with her even when she tells me otherwise not to do it, but I want to get her out of that place. It's a stressful environment for her. I've considered lot's of things for her. I can never stop but I can feel like the boundaries are full of shit sometimes. Why can't I go and just see if shes okay, you know? I don't know, I'm kind of crazy...I just...
For me to have a target, they'd have to be my ideal partner. I don't go after normal people because my jealousy and intimacy needs end up hurting all parties involved. I wouldn't have to actively fight human nature or rivals with my ideal partner. But if I ever met my ideal, I would consider them mine, or if they were mine and someone liked them, I'm not above murder for my ideal. I would do anything to make her mine if she wasn't and anything to get rid of anyone with attraction towards her. As for what is too far: Using violence and threats against her. Her feelings for me cannot be coerced. I hope this made sense.
tl;dr: Too far: Coercing her to like me. Everything else is fair game.
i think the extent to which it goes too far is obvious, as long as it isn't abusive. however when my ex said he wanted to leave me earlier today i felt like wanting to get my face ripped off or something so haha yea i didn't expect to have such impulsive thoughts like that.
savor kindness, because cruelty is always possible later.
jhalemoreno: There is no Discord that would suit me by the way.
May 16, 2020 2:40:09 GMT
silentcal: Are you sure?
May 16, 2020 17:57:39 GMT
jhalemoreno: Out of anything I've seen, there isn't any active community I would belong to. A lot of people are dishonest on Discord and I'm very honest and straightforward as well as having a lot of uncommon interests.
May 16, 2020 18:55:31 GMT
jhalemoreno: However, I kind of revived the totally unknown Yandere ^2 discord (I had a very old invite saved in a private message to myself) and they are good conversation.
May 16, 2020 19:00:51 GMT
silentcal: There is another Yan Discord that is very active, and I remember joining it from here
May 17, 2020 16:03:27 GMT
jhalemoreno: The big servers typically have really obnoxious users that don't feel genuine and if there are Yandere channels they don't get used.
May 17, 2020 20:32:52 GMT
jhalemoreno: Can't focus right now but my day would be wasted if I slept...
May 19, 2020 6:52:02 GMT